Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the values you want to cultivate. Our Self-Respect is reflected in every choice we make, so as you choose, pay attention to what you've chosen and what you've allowed to stay. Choose friends you are proud to know, people who are positive, optimistic, with an eye for things to appreciate.
Love and respect yourself enough to release those relationships that keep you from emerging as the being you came here to be. No two people come together for the benefit of only one, both are equally served by the dynamic, so there is nothing wrong and no one is at fault. Everything is temporary, so if you want something different, choose wisely your responses to life.
In everything we do, there is a payoff. The only reason anyone stays in a situation or allows certain behavior to continue, is because the payoff is greater than the annoyance. Once we've acknowledged this, being in a challenging situation or relationship feels more like a choice and less like a punishment.
Acceptance is the key to Peace.
Be Positive ~ Create Deliberately ~ Live Joyfully
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